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<div class="blogparent">from the book “<a href="/n">Hell Yeah or No</a>”:</div>
<h1>Quitting something you love</h1>
<small>2016-12-30</small>
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	Personal change needs some space to happen.
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	To bring something new into your life, you need somewhere to put it.
	If your current habits are filling your day, where are these new habits supposed to go?
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	The English word “quit” comes from old French, meaning “to free” or “to release”.
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	We know about quitting something that’s bad for you, or something you hate.
	But what about quitting something you love?
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	I rebel against anything that feels like addiction.
	When I hear myself saying “I need this,” I want to challenge that dependency and prove my independence.
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	It’s usually something tiny.
	For example, I used to keep mints in the car.
	One day when I ran out, I thought, “Oh no! I need more!”
	But as soon as I felt that need, no — time to quit.
	No mints in the car since that day.
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	Sometimes it’s something big.
	I used to have an awesome job.
	I loved it so much that I became too comfortable.
	So <a href="/nq">I made myself quit</a>.
	That made me figure out how to be a full-time musician.
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	Ten years ago, I felt addicted to America.
	It was my comfort zone.
	I loved it too much.
	I couldn’t imagine living anywhere else.
	So I made myself quit.
	I haven’t lived there in ten years, and probably never will again.
	People often ask if I miss it.
	Any regrets?
	Not at all.
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	I still love everything I quit.
	But not as much as I love all this room for change.
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