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<div class="blogparent">from the book “<a href="/n">Hell Yeah or No</a>”:</div>
<h1>Assume men and women are the same</h1>
<small>2016-02-28</small>
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	Men say, “Women can never make up their minds.”
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	But actually both men and women are equally indecisive.
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	Women say, “Men think one thing but say another.”
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	But actually both men and women are equally indirect.
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	We think the differences between our group and another group are greater than they are.
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	But the differences <em>among</em> men, and the differences <em>among</em> women, are much bigger than the differences <em>between</em> men and women.
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	So instead, <a href="/compensate">to compensate for your tendency to exaggerate those differences</a>, just assume that men and women are the same.
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	They’re not the same, but if you follow this rule, your thinking will be closer to correct than not.
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