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<h1>The power of no reward</h1>
<small>2009-07-10</small>
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<p>
	Are you paying an affiliate fee to your customers to recommend their friends?
</p><p>
	Think again.
	It may backfire.
</p>
<h4>
	Compare these two scenarios:
</h4>
<ol><li>
	“Hey you should check out this website. They’re cool. You’ll like it.”
</li><li>
	“Hey you should check out this website. They’re cool. You’ll like it. If you sign up, make sure to <strong>mention my affiliate code</strong> 43625.”
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	The first one sounds sincere.
	I’ll check it out.
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	But the second one sounds suspicious.
	Does my friend <em>really</em> think I’ll like it, or is he only telling me to profit?
<strong>
	Now I don’t trust the recommendation anymore.
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<h4>
	Compare these two scenarios:
</h4>
<ol><li>
	“Excuse me, neighbor. Can you please help me lift this desk through that door? It’s stuck.”
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	“Excuse me, neighbor. Can you please help me lift this desk through that door? <strong>I’ll pay you a dollar.</strong>”
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	The first one is fine.
	We all like to think of ourselves as helpful.
	And we enjoy a challenge.
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	But the second one is insulting.
	A dollar?
	I’m your neighbor!
	You don’t need to pay me.
	But the amount you offered is even more insulting than nothing.
	I’m going to say no.
<strong>
	If my neighbor is looking to hire someone for a dollar, he can hire someone else.
</strong>
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	The great book “<a href="/book/PredictablyIrrational">Predictably Irrational</a>” says social psychology tests have shown <strong>we have two different sets of rules: social mindset and market mindset</strong>.
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	<strong>Social mindset</strong> is warm and fuzzy social human nature: helping friends, being a good generous person, doing what’s right.
</p><p>
	<strong>Market mindset</strong> is strictly business: being paid for time and effort, competition, you get what you pay for, and cost/benefit analysis.
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	<strong>Introducing money into a social relationship switches it to market mindset,</strong> changing the entire relationship, making all the warm-and-fuzzy go away.
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<p>
	Here’s an <a href="/book/PredictablyIrrational">example</a> of what <em>not</em> to do:
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	A day care center had a problem with parents picking up the kids late.
	The teachers were often waiting an extra hour with the kids for tardy parents to show up.
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	So they added a fine.
	$3 each time you are late to pick up your kids.
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	So now that parents were paying for their tardiness, they used market mindset to decide whether $3 was worth it to be late, and tardiness actually <strong>increased</strong>!
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<strong>
	Social mindset had been replaced with market mindset.
	What was a decision of social guilt (“I feel bad. I’m late.”) was now a cost/benefit analysis (“I’ll work a little longer, and pay the $3.”)
</strong>
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	Realizing their mistake, the day care <strong>removed the fine</strong> a few weeks later, <strong>tardiness increased again</strong>, now that social mindset and market mindset had both been removed.
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	Poor day care center.
	Don’t be like them.
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	In over <a href="http://www.alfiekohn.org/article/best-results-forget-bonus/">20 published studies</a>, <strong>people who expect to receive a reward do not perform as well as those who expect nothing</strong>.
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<strong>
	Don’t underestimate the power of no reward.
</strong>
	Don’t introduce market mindset for social things.
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	Next time you’re thinking of rewarding your friends or customers with cash, think how offensive it would be to offer to pay for sex.
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