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<h1>Time is personal. Your year changes when your life changes.</h1>
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A new day begins when I wake up, not at midnight.
Midnight means nothing to me.
It’s not a turning point.
Nothing changes at that moment.
A new year begins when there’s a memorable change in my life.
Not January 1st.
Nothing changes on January 1st.
I can understand using moments like midnight and January 1st as coordinators, so cultures and computers can <a href="https://xkcd.com/1179/">agree</a> on how to reference time.
But shouldn’t our personal markers and celebrations happen at personally meaningful times?
Your year really begins when you move to a new home, start school, quit a job, have a big breakup, have a baby, quit a bad habit, start a new project, or whatever else.
Those are the real memorable turning points — where one day is very different than the day before.
Those are the meaningful markers of time.
That’s your “new year”.
This isn’t selfish.
You know your friends and family well enough to acknowledge these special days for them, too.
The day that I most want to celebrate someone’s life has nothing to do with the calendar day that they were born.
The fourth Thursday in November is not when I feel most thankful.
February 14th is not when I celebrate romance.
To force these celebrations on universal dates disconnects them from the meaning they’re supposed to celebrate.
Celebrate personally meaningful markers.
Ignore arbitrary calendar dates.
When did this year really begin for you?
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