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<h1>Frequently Asked Questions</h1>
<small>2016-12-22</small>
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<p>
	In the last ten years, I have answered over 200,000 emails from 86,000 people.
	It’s my part-time job — my community service.
	These are the most common questions.
</p>
<hr id="career">
<h3>
	What should I do about my career?
</h3>
<p>
	Read the book “<a href="/career">So Good They Can’t Ignore You</a>”.
</p>
<hr id="life">
<h3>
	What should I do with my life?
</h3>
<p>
	Read “<a href="/hsu">Happy, Smart, and Useful</a>”.
</p>
<hr id="intro">
<h3>
	Can you introduce me to (famous person)?
</h3>
<p>
	No, sorry.
	Definitely not on request.
</p><p>
	If my friends <em>ask</em> me if I know someone who’s doing what you’re doing, or have a specific need, then I’ll be glad to recommend you.
	But not if they don’t ask.
</p>
<hr id="promote">
<h3>
	Will you promote my thing?
</h3>
<p>
	Read “<a href="/nopr">Why I don’t promote</a>”.
</p>
<hr id="invest">
<h3>
	Will you invest in my company?
</h3>
<p>
	No, sorry.
	I never had investors.
	I have never invested in anyone or anything.
</p><p>
	I don’t know anything about investing, and I’m not interested in it.
</p>
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<h3>
	Can I use your video / article?
</h3>
<p><strong>
	Yes.
	Anything I put on <a href="/">sive.rs</a> is free forever.
</strong></p><p>
	It would be nice if you could credit me and link back to sive.rs
	But honestly I don’t care either way.
</p><p>
	For the “<a href="/ff">First Follower — How to Make a Movement — Leadership Lessons from a Dancing Guy</a>” dancing guy video, please get my original from <a href="/ff">sive.rs/ff</a> instead of <a href="https://www.ted.com/talks/derek_sivers_how_to_start_a_movement">the one from the TED Conference</a>.
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<h3>
	Will you be on my podcast?
</h3>
<p><strong>
	Maybe.
	<a href="/contact">Email me</a> a few questions you’d like to ask.
</strong></p><p>
	I enjoy interviews when the questions are interesting, and haven’t been covered before.
</p><p>
	<a href="/i">Here is the archive</a> of my past podcast interviews.
</p>
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<h3>
	Will you speak at my event?
</h3>
<p>
	Sorry, I don’t do public speaking anymore.
</p>
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<h3>
	I’ve got content for your site.
</h3>
<p>
	No, this is my personal site, completely non-commercial, for my personal expression only.
</p><p>
	No advertising, no income, no analytics, no tracking, nobody else’s stuff.
</p>
<hr id="focus">
<h3>
	I can’t focus.
</h3>
<p>
	First understand the do-or-die importance of focus.
<strong>
	If you don’t learn to focus, you will have a shallow and unrewarding life without any meaningful achievements.
</strong>
	So make it a priority.
</p><p>
	Read the book “<a href="/book/DeepWork">Deep Work</a>”.
</p><p>
	Read “<a href="/donkey">Trying to pursue many different directions at once?</a>”.
</p><p>
	Practice meditation.
</p><p>
	Yes it’s hard.
	Websites, phone apps, and media in general are designed to be as addictive as possible.
	Treat them as you would other harmful addictions.
</p>
<hr id="balance1">
<h3>
	I have a boring well-paying job. Should I quit my job to pursue my art full-time?
</h3>
<p>
	Read “<a href="/balance">How to do what you love and make good money</a>”.
</p>
<hr id="balance2">
<h3>
	I’m a full-time artist, but can’t make money. What should I do?
</h3>
<p>
	Read “<a href="/balance">How to do what you love and make good money</a>”.
</p>
<hr id="idea">
<h3>
	What do you think of this business idea?
</h3>
<p><strong>
	It doesn’t matter what anyone thinks, except your customers.
</strong></p><p>
	Nobody can predict whether it will work or not.
	So stop asking “in-theory” and go find out.
</p><p>
	Find just one paying customer, and please that person.
<a href="/startnow">
	Start lo-fi, right now.
</a>
</p><p>
	Read “<a href="/book/LeanStartup">The Lean Startup</a>” book, for more thoughts on this.
</p>
<hr id="mentor">
<h3>
	Where can I find a mentor?
</h3>
<p>
	First read “<a href="/ment">How to ask your mentors for help</a>”.
</p><p>
	Then read “<a href="/advice">A warning to anyone receiving advice</a>”.
</p><p>
	Then read the best books about the challenges you face, and <strong>let those books be your mentors.</strong>
</p><p><strong>
	It’s dangerous to think that there is one special person that can give you all the answers and help you.
</strong></p><p>
	Talk with many people, not just experts.
<a href="/book/WisdomOfCrowds">
	Get a diverse group of opinions.
</a>
</p><p>
	I never had a mentor.
	When stuck on a problem, I’ve always called many friends for feedback.
	Some of the best and most helpful insights came from random friends asking naïve questions.
</p>
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<h3>
	Why isn’t my business or audience growing faster?
</h3>
<p>
	I worked on CD Baby for 12-18 hours per day, 7 days per week, for <strong>four years</strong> before it really took off.
</p><p>
	As for an audience, I’ve been creating and posting things online for free non-stop since 1994.
	Yep, that’s <strong>25 years</strong> now.
	And <a href="/hundreds">keeping in touch</a> with everyone I met that whole time.
</p><p>
	Keep pushing, but be patient.
</p>
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<h3>
	How should I learn programming?
</h3>
<p>
	First master HTML and CSS, as described in “<a href="/prog">Should you learn programming? Yes.</a>”
</p><p><strong>
	Then learn JavaScript, as described in “<a href="/learn-js">How to learn JavaScript</a>”.
</strong></p><p>
	If you just want to get a job or make a website, you can ignore the curiosity about other languages.
	Just master JavaScript, and it will take you far.
</p><p>
	But if you still find programming fascinating, make a point of learning the basics of three or four other vastly different languages, like
	<a href="https://www.oreilly.com/library/view/head-first-sql/9780596526849/">SQL</a>,
	<a href="https://www.python.org/">Python</a>, and
	<a href="https://racket-lang.org/">Racket</a>,
	because something clicks once you understand a few different ways of getting the end result you want.
	You don’t need to master them.
	Just spend a month with each, going through a couple tutorial books about it, and making something happen with it.
</p><p>
	Definitely read “<a href="https://pragprog.com/titles/tpp20/">The Pragmatic Programmer</a>”, no matter what.
</p>
<hr id="writer">
<h3>
	How do I become a better writer?
</h3>
<p>
	First read “<a href="/book/OnWritingWell">On Writing Well</a>”.
</p><p>
	Then read “<a href="/book/MadeToStick">Made to Stick</a>”.
</p><p>
	Write publicly every week.
	Post it somewhere people see it.
	Something changes when your writing is out in the public, being seen by strangers.
	Seeing it through their eyes helps more than anything.
</p>
<hr id="review">
<h3>
	Will you read or review my book?
</h3>
<p>
	I don’t review books.
</p><p>
	I only read for my own self-improvement, based on my own needs at the time, then <a href="/book">take notes</a> for my own reflection.
</p>
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<h3>
	I’m a musician. What should I do?
</h3>
<p>
	Read “<a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1631494791/">How To Make It in the New Music Business</a>” by Ari Herstand, and do what he says.
</p><p><strong>
	This is the single best book on the current music business.
	An absolute must-read for every musician.
</strong></p>
<hr id="cdbaby">
<h3>
	Blah blah blah blah CD Baby?
</h3>
<p>
<a href="/done">
	I left CD Baby in 2008.
</a>
	I haven’t talked with anyone there since then.
	I don’t even know who works there anymore.
</p><p>
	I know nothing about what they’re doing.
	So I have no insights and no opinions.
</p>
<hr id="models">
<h3>
	What should I do about my relationship, or lack of?
</h3>
<p>
	Read “<a href="https://markmanson.net/books/models">Models</a>” by Mark Manson.
	(Only guys ask me for relationship advice.)
</p>
<hr id="sad">
<h3>
	I’m really sad.
</h3>
<p>
	Read “<a href="/book/WhenThingsFallApart">When Things Fall Apart</a>” by Pema Chödrön.
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