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#Open Decorum

Conversations on your schedule.

Your time and attention are precious. Modern communication has made it incredibly convenient to send a message to someone, but this takes a toll on our most precious resource. Anyone with access can now send you a text, chat message, or email that triggers a near instantaneous notification that demands your attention.

Open Decorum aims to compliment your current methods of communcation by giving you a channel of communication that happens at your pace so you can engage when you are at your best.


Conversations start as threads. Chats can be hard to follow when multiple topics are brought up before you can respond; this will even happen between two people. Some chats support turning a message into a threaded conversation, but the default is to still have a linear flow of conversation. By making threads the base unit of conversation, you can simply create a new thread for each new topic that gets brought up. This ensures that the subjects you bring up can be responded to without getting lost in a flood of new topics.

Notifications on your schedule. When someone replies to a thread you are in or you are invited to join a new thread, you aren't immediately notified. Instead, new events are checked on a schedule you setup for yourself and a notification is only created when you have new activity. For example, you may set your client to check every three hours between when you finish your morning routine and before bed. You will be able to consiously check for updates yourself, but not with a quick frequency that would allow you to immediately respond to every message.

Everyone communicating with you in this manner will not expect an immediate response. If someone needs an immediate response, they can reach you in the plethora of tools they already have, such as text or chat. This allows you to have meaningful conversations with people who have different schedules than yourself; even different timezones. Most communication does not need your immediate attention, but we have the instinct to immediately check notifications. By having most conversations happen at your pace, you free more of your attention and your ability to focus.

Threads expire. If there is no activity on a thread it will eventually expire. This provides an easy mechanism for your old threads to be automatically cleaned. Many conversations don't need to be kept and the act of "forgetting" has the benefit of keeping what's relevant easy to find.

Threads can be exported. For the conversations that you want to keep, you can export them. Whether you want to document the full context of how you've arrive at an important decision, or working on a narrative with a friend, you should be able to pull a thread out and keep it. You'll be warned when a thread is about to expire with plenty of time to decide which threads you want to keep.


Q: How can I start using Open Decorum?

A: Open Decorum is under heavy development. We have not made a release yet.

Q: Who hosts Open Decorum?

A: You or a friend will be able to host Open Decorum on your own server.

Q: Will Open Decorum support multiple accounts/identities?

A: We plan to support this by allowing you to login to multiple accounts with your Open Decorum client. This way you can have an account that's for work, a personal account, and possibly others if you want one for each circle of friends.

Q: How is Open Decorum different from email?

A: Email used to be the way to communicate on your own schedule when people used dial-up to check their email. You could send an email and the person recieving it would get it when they had time to consiously sit at their computer and dialed a phone number to connect to the internet. Compare that to now when we typically have phone constantly connected to the internet and default to giving you a notification as soon as you receive an email. Open Decorum brings the conversation back to your pace.

Since email has become instantaneous, people tend to have expectations that you will read their email shortly after they send it. Open Decorum prevents this by making it impossible to check for new messages frequently.

Email is also often rife with automated messages. Many conversations have moved away from email. Open Decorum is intended for human-to-human conversations.

#Community / Contributing

If you are excited about Open Decorum and would like to contribute, we have multiple ways in which you can perticipate. You do not need to code to contribute!

Here are a few ways you can help us:

  • Feedback
  • Documentation
  • Testing
  • Bug reports
  • Code

Note: We are still working on how we wish to collaborate, so these tools and how we use these tools are subject to change.

#Mailing List

We currently have one mailing list, though this may change in the future. The mailing list is used for:

  • Asking questions
  • Meeting notes
  • Sharing feedback and ideas
  • Discussing design and architecture
  • Submitting code patches for peer review

Anyone may participate in the mailing list without creating an account. Simply send an email to the mailing list to start participating. You do not have to subscribe to participate.

Note: Some email services do not like ~ or / characters in email addresses. If this is the case, you can use the alternate email address: u.kiba.decorum@lists.sr.ht

To subscribe, send an email to: ~kiba/decorum+subscribe@lists.sr.ht

To unsubscribe, send an email to: ~kiba/decorum+unsubscribe@lists.sr.ht

#Issue Tracker

Our issue tracker is used for tracking:

  • User stories
  • Bugs
  • Tasks

Currently, you must have a sourcehut account to submit or comment on a ticket. You can view tickets without an account.


We are experimenting using Discord as our real-time communication service. We hope that this tool enables us to do the following:

  • pair-program with the ability to screen share
  • hold live meetings over audio

Discord Server Link: https://discord.gg/tNuRFc8


Licensed under the EUPL-1.2. See the LICENSE file for full details.