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There are no specific factors to being cool other than being confident with who you are.</p><p> </p><p><em>I’m feeling sad and I don’t know what to do about it can you guys help me?</em></p><p>Sadness is a normal part of life and is an emotion we have all dealt with. If this feeling of sadness is persistent and overwhelming, then it would be a good idea to seek professional help. Seeking help may sound scary but you’ll be glad you did it in the long run. If there are things that make you feel better, do them. Talk to friends, engage in your hobbies, but most importantly seek help if your sadness starts holding you back.</p><p> </p><p><em>I am feeling depressed and I don’t know what to do.</em></p><p>Depression is a serious thing that can be treated. Know that help is always available. Here at school we have a Licensed Professional Counselor in room 305 who can help you figure out what’s going on. It’s important to reach out for help even if you’re feeling helpless. You can also try to find something to occupy your mind with like writing, playing with a pet, etc. Know that you are not alone, and there are people who can and want to help you. If you would like to talk to a peer, you could contact someone in newspaper club. You can contact us through Instagram @btw_news or email: <a href=mailto:bookertnews@gmail.com>bookertnews@gmail.com</a></p><p>1 800 273 8255 – this is the national suicide hotline available 24/7.</p><p>918 744 4800- this number is a crisis line you can dial if you are in need of immediate help</p><p>918 394 2256-  this number directs you to the Calm Center here in Tulsa that provides you with immediate help in time of crisis.</p><p> </p><p><em>How do you find the right people to be friends with, so how do you find your new friend group as a freshman?</em></p><p>Freshman year can be a rough and confusing time for anyone. Finding new friends isn’t always an easy thing. 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